Lies About Women and Wives

by Cory H. on January 13, 2009

. . . from the beginning, [Satan] has worked with a vengeance to distort the very definition of womanhood and to confuse everyone about us, including us. Here are just a few of [Satan’s] lies: That men are smarter, have all the power, and are more important, so if we want to have influence we should be more like them; that marriage and family are confining; that motherhood is menial and a waste of any talented woman’s time; that women are perpetually frazzled and failing; and that a woman’s value is based on her size, shape and what she accomplishes outside the home. Too many women have bought these lies. Our culture is disintegrating at the speed of light, and unfortunately, our gender is doing a lot of the damage.

~Sheri Dew, ["Awake, Arise, and Come Unto Christ"
a speech given at 2008 BYU Women's Conference]

Special thanks to Liss from The Fascinating Woman for this quote.

Indeed, so many men buy into the above stereotypes as well.  Men, a Good Husband stands up for his wife, cares for her, and encourages her.  He also defends her against such abuse and goes out of his way to keep it from ever coming to her.  When he fails in his duty, he owns up to that responsibility and makes it right.  No matter how late it is at night or how much stress he’s under.

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yes, there exists a strong stereotype in today's world that belittles motherhood. A woman who chooses to stay home and take care of little ones is stigmatized by other women as stupid and wasting her life. This is the dance of the devil. Today's media portrays your value or sense of self worth is "how much" you make at office, doesn't matter how you make it. Women have to become strong against these negative stereotypes. If a woman can ignore/discard all these negative stereotypes that are shown 24/7 in the media, she will be one happy one!!

rich, I don't think women are more selfish today. I think it is just a necessity of time where each one of us has to look for ourselves. Who else is going to take care for us otherwise? We live in the modern world where old style values - social, family, are out and new ways of living are in. The new values are not necessarily harmonious with the family life, as a result their is divorce. Women also need help and women also like families. Not all women are against marriage and family life.

unfortunately many women today are trained by the social culture around us to be selfish in the relationship. Women are told that they should expect their man to appreciate them, bring them flowers etc. whereas women are not supposed to do anything for the man in their relationship. Now a days, women don't even cook at home. When man comes home after days work, he is supposed to bring flowers for his wife but wife is not supposed to do anything for the husband. The man has to cook his own dinner in microwave. When women have such "taker" attitude, how can the marriage survive?

More people need to see this. This is the first I've seen of your site, but I'll be linking back frequently based on this post. I think our times have confused men's role in marriage and relationships in general. It's good to see that someone is out there speaking the truth.

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