Comments on: How to Forgive Your Spouse http://agoodhusband.net/2009/01/how-to-forgive-your-spouse/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=how-to-forgive-your-spouse Marriage Advice From A Man Sun, 29 Jan 2012 11:58:50 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Aldo http://agoodhusband.net/2009/01/how-to-forgive-your-spouse/#comment-1818 Aldo Tue, 09 Aug 2011 21:17:49 +0000 http://agoodhusband.net/?p=1098#comment-1818 Hi, thank you for your great posts. I came here because I have been married for 6 yeras, out of the first five in a real miserable lifestyle. We have never cheated each other nor done physical harm but my wife was not ready to marry me, and our first baby came before we were married, plus my eldest son from a previous marriage were enough challenges. My wife was a very young lady without experience in living with a man, nor dealing with children, not even taking care of herlself. All these inmaturenesses encouraged me to take care of everything, while she continued studying plus working at the same time. We have separated already twice and now our marriage and family are settled, but... I am very resented that many harmful things had to happen before she could finally decide to do her part as a wife, mother, and leader. She asks me if I love her and I decide to say yes but, I find it so difficult to continue since she really damaged my person in every way. God bless you all. Hi, thank you for your great posts. I came here because I have been married for 6 yeras, out of the first five in a real miserable lifestyle. We have never cheated each other nor done physical harm but my wife was not ready to marry me, and our first baby came before we were married, plus my eldest son from a previous marriage were enough challenges. My wife was a very young lady without experience in living with a man, nor dealing with children, not even taking care of herlself. All these inmaturenesses encouraged me to take care of everything, while she continued studying plus working at the same time. We have separated already twice and now our marriage and family are settled, but… I am very resented that many harmful things had to happen before she could finally decide to do her part as a wife, mother, and leader. She asks me if I love her and I decide to say yes but, I find it so difficult to continue since she really damaged my person in every way. God bless you all.

]]> By: karibo longjohn http://agoodhusband.net/2009/01/how-to-forgive-your-spouse/#comment-1686 karibo longjohn Mon, 10 Jan 2011 06:08:00 +0000 http://agoodhusband.net/?p=1098#comment-1686 i thank God for directing me to this site i have achiived what i have achived in my life i thank God for directing me to this site i have achiived what i have achived in my life

]]> By: Jay Schryer http://agoodhusband.net/2009/01/how-to-forgive-your-spouse/#comment-817 Jay Schryer Wed, 04 Feb 2009 17:00:25 +0000 http://agoodhusband.net/?p=1098#comment-817 Of these, I think "Assume Love" is the most important. Arguments should always bring people closer together, either through deeper understanding of each other or through a greater realization of our own faults. If you always "assume love", then you can learn these lessons. The alternative, "assume leaving", prevents the healing that is necessary. <abbr><em><abbr><em>Jay Schryers last blog post..<a href="http://porsidan.com/2009/01/why-we-love/" rel="nofollow">Why We Love</a></em></abbr></abbr></em> Of these, I think “Assume Love” is the most important. Arguments should always bring people closer together, either through deeper understanding of each other or through a greater realization of our own faults. If you always “assume love”, then you can learn these lessons. The alternative, “assume leaving”, prevents the healing that is necessary.

Jay Schryers last blog post..Why We Love

]]> By: dex http://agoodhusband.net/2009/01/how-to-forgive-your-spouse/#comment-755 dex Mon, 26 Jan 2009 16:25:44 +0000 http://agoodhusband.net/?p=1098#comment-755 Forgiving your spouse - although, it may not be an easy thing to do, you have to remember the things that brought the two of you together, instead of focusing solely on the things that may divide you. :p Forgiving your spouse – although, it may not be an easy thing to do, you have to remember the things that brought the two of you together, instead of focusing solely on the things that may divide you.

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]]> By: Buddy http://agoodhusband.net/2009/01/how-to-forgive-your-spouse/#comment-736 Buddy Wed, 14 Jan 2009 23:58:35 +0000 http://agoodhusband.net/?p=1098#comment-736 My Dad has a saying that when bad things come your way you can get better or bitter. Forgiveness makes you better and lets you move on. Harboring, Remembering, Replaying, Getting even, the silent treatment all make you bitter. Forgiveness isn't easy. Then again how often is the best or right thing easy? If you are struggling with forgiving ask Jesus Christ to help you forgive and ask for his forgiveness if you feel bitterness creaping up in your soul towards another. <abbr><em><abbr><em>Buddys last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/myleadercast/~3/510746680/" rel="nofollow">Accountability and Discipleship Groups</a></em></abbr></abbr></em> My Dad has a saying that when bad things come your way you can get better or bitter. Forgiveness makes you better and lets you move on. Harboring, Remembering, Replaying, Getting even, the silent treatment all make you bitter. Forgiveness isn’t easy. Then again how often is the best or right thing easy? If you are struggling with forgiving ask Jesus Christ to help you forgive and ask for his forgiveness if you feel bitterness creaping up in your soul towards another.

Buddys last blog post..Accountability and Discipleship Groups

]]> By: James Seay http://agoodhusband.net/2009/01/how-to-forgive-your-spouse/#comment-735 James Seay Wed, 14 Jan 2009 23:56:02 +0000 http://agoodhusband.net/?p=1098#comment-735 This is a great post at the right time, thanks. This is a great post at the right time, thanks.

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