Comments on: Retrospective: Effects of Pornography on Marriage http://agoodhusband.net/2008/12/retrospective-effects-of-pornography-on-marriage/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=retrospective-effects-of-pornography-on-marriage Marriage Advice From A Man Sun, 29 Jan 2012 11:58:50 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Laurie http://agoodhusband.net/2008/12/retrospective-effects-of-pornography-on-marriage/#comment-674 Laurie Mon, 29 Dec 2008 15:35:26 +0000 http://agoodhusband.net/?p=1067#comment-674 A sexual relationship between a husband and wife is supposed to be something they create together, alone. It's as if the two bring their own paints to the canvas and using their brushes together paint a beautiful picture of their love. You really need to start this on a blank canvas to have the picture develop to the beauty that it can, that it was meant to have. To spatter paint from other lovers or from pornography causes the painting to not be all it can be. It diminishes the potential for pure expression of the two souls on the one canvas. At least, this is what I believe. A sexual relationship between a husband and wife is supposed to be something they create together, alone. It’s as if the two bring their own paints to the canvas and using their brushes together paint a beautiful picture of their love. You really need to start this on a blank canvas to have the picture develop to the beauty that it can, that it was meant to have. To spatter paint from other lovers or from pornography causes the painting to not be all it can be. It diminishes the potential for pure expression of the two souls on the one canvas. At least, this is what I believe.

]]> By: Surfer Jay http://agoodhusband.net/2008/12/retrospective-effects-of-pornography-on-marriage/#comment-673 Surfer Jay Mon, 29 Dec 2008 06:50:09 +0000 http://agoodhusband.net/?p=1067#comment-673 I saw the original post and the subsequent comments. It truly is shocking that so many people are ignorant to the harm that pornography has upon them and society as a whole. Many have just become so acustomed to seeing it, they think it's okay. And clearly it is not. Thank you for addressing this issue. People need to talk about tough issues like this. I have discussed it many times with my girlfriend over the years. And, very shockingly to me, she also does not think it has a negative social impact. I have not yet been able to enlighten her to it's dark side. But thankfully, we are not users. <abbr><em><abbr><em>Surfer Jays last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/IHaveToWipeHisWhat/~3/496851058/please-keep-my-boy-dumb.html" rel="nofollow">Please Keep My Boy Dumb</a></em></abbr></abbr></em> I saw the original post and the subsequent comments. It truly is shocking that so many people are ignorant to the harm that pornography has upon them and society as a whole. Many have just become so acustomed to seeing it, they think it’s okay. And clearly it is not.

Thank you for addressing this issue. People need to talk about tough issues like this.

I have discussed it many times with my girlfriend over the years. And, very shockingly to me, she also does not think it has a negative social impact. I have not yet been able to enlighten her to it’s dark side.
But thankfully, we are not users.

Surfer Jays last blog post..Please Keep My Boy Dumb

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