All husbands are interested in skipping foreplay, right?
There are hundreds of thousands of husbands the world over who make it regular practice to get out of their own way. One of the biggest traps that husbands can fall into is being too prideful to realize when it’s time to make it about what your wife needs, not about what you want.
A friend of mine and I were talking one day and he told me that he had this great evening planned where he was going to have a guitar lesson and then go race remote control cars. Sounds like a great evening for guys, right? I talked to him the next day and he told me that he ended up canceling the whole evening. When I asked him why, he told me that his wife (who, by the way had her fabulous Nerdy Alphabet artwork featured on Arts Afire) had a bad evening and needed to be picked up. So he just canceled his plans, just like that, to be with her.
Last night when I got home, my wife was knee deep in the middle of writing her final paper for one of her college classes. She’s been sick for a week, so it was extra stress, and our apartment was a mess. Without being asked I decided to clean up. I threw out the trash & the mounds of used tissue, put away the clean & dirty clothes, organized the papers and books, and swept the floor. It wasn’t much, but it made a huge difference in our stress level. Then I left her alone to finish her paperwork.
I updated my Facebook status to say, “Cory is a Tidy Husband.” One of my friends (a guy) asked what that meant, if that had something to do with Kitty Litter? One of my other friends (a girl) gave a rather terse reply saying that it meant that I put away my socks and didn’t act like it was doing my wife a favor.
The difference between the way men and women think, right?
Husbands, do yourselves and your marriage a favor, and get out of your own way. These little acts of service are what marriage is all about. Oh, yeah, and I’ve heard a lot of women say that it’s the best kind of foreplay.
Great comments-- it's important that we guys actually become aware enough of what our wives do and their surroundings so that they realize we love them.
BTW, liss' avatar is messing with my mind.
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