Comments on: Could You Forgive Your Spouse for Cheating? http://agoodhusband.net/2008/12/could-you-forgive-your-spouse-for-cheating/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=could-you-forgive-your-spouse-for-cheating Marriage Advice From A Man Sun, 20 May 2012 10:41:47 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: rebeca111 http://agoodhusband.net/2008/12/could-you-forgive-your-spouse-for-cheating/#comment-2017 rebeca111 Tue, 24 Apr 2012 20:40:44 +0000 http://agoodhusband.net/?p=1040#comment-2017 Anon: Last month I found out that my husband went to this massage girl and paid for sex. It happened last year right after 3 days of our 12th anniversary. I am devastated, constantly thinking about what happened. I asked him to tell me everything that happened in that room in details, he told me in the end. It was just too torturing, now i can't stop having those images. I found out the website for the massage parlor and even saw that girl's pictures. I just can't describe how I am feeling right now. My heart is broken. We have a 9 years old boy, we decided to give our marriage another chance. But will I ever be able to trust him again, forget what happen?  Anon: Last month I found out that my husband went to this massage girl and paid for sex. It happened last year right after 3 days of our 12th anniversary. I am devastated, constantly thinking about what happened. I asked him to tell me everything that happened in that room in details, he told me in the end. It was just too torturing, now i can’t stop having those images. I found out the website for the massage parlor and even saw that girl’s pictures. I just can’t describe how I am feeling right now. My heart is broken. We have a 9 years old boy, we decided to give our marriage another chance. But will I ever be able to trust him again, forget what happen? 

]]> By: neka hunt1 http://agoodhusband.net/2008/12/could-you-forgive-your-spouse-for-cheating/#comment-2012 neka hunt1 Sat, 10 Mar 2012 18:49:24 +0000 http://agoodhusband.net/?p=1040#comment-2012 my husband has always been doing shit and we been married nine years and this last time . hurt the most he was cheating with this big elephant for about two years and he lied and said he never did it and that the girl was lying .but i caught hom on twitter and he had his family see that shit and he was talking about me being stupid and he was telling her he loved her .and my heart is hurt cause i fight all the time.i jumped on his mama and sister and he give them shit to say about me.the girl email me woith the messy shit. my husband has always been doing shit and we been married nine years and this last time . hurt the most he was cheating with this big elephant for about two years and he lied and said he never did it and that the girl was lying .but i caught hom on twitter and he had his family see that shit and he was talking about me being stupid and he was telling her he loved her .and my heart is hurt cause i fight all the time.i jumped on his mama and sister and he give them shit to say about me.the girl email me woith the messy shit.

]]> By: delicatebonds http://agoodhusband.net/2008/12/could-you-forgive-your-spouse-for-cheating/#comment-2008 delicatebonds Wed, 22 Feb 2012 08:24:04 +0000 http://agoodhusband.net/?p=1040#comment-2008 Its not easy to forgive, when you've been cheated by someone whom you loved with your life. That kills! Irene, you have faced irreversible damage to your feelings. Its not going to heal that easy. It will take time. For now, all i can suggest you is to let those memories go. That is the best you can do. Hardly anything else seems feasible. If he is really a changed man now, then you must accept him back, if not for anything else, then for you kids. http://www.delicatebonds.com/is-your-partner-cheating-on-you/ Its not easy to forgive, when you’ve been cheated by someone whom you loved with your life. That kills!

Irene, you have faced irreversible damage to your feelings. Its not going to heal that easy. It will take time. For now, all i can suggest you is to let those memories go. That is the best you can do. Hardly anything else seems feasible. If he is really a changed man now, then you must accept him back, if not for anything else, then for you kids.

http://www.delicatebonds.com/is-your-partner-cheating-on-you/

]]> By: delicatebonds http://agoodhusband.net/2008/12/could-you-forgive-your-spouse-for-cheating/#comment-2007 delicatebonds Wed, 22 Feb 2012 08:18:16 +0000 http://agoodhusband.net/?p=1040#comment-2007 It isn't really easy to forgive, especially if you know you've cheated. When someone you love with your life betrays you, it kills! http://www.delicatebonds.com/is-your-partner-cheating-on-you/ It isn’t really easy to forgive, especially if you know you’ve cheated. When someone you love with your life betrays you, it kills!

http://www.delicatebonds.com/is-your-partner-cheating-on-you/

]]> By: SusanVangHang http://agoodhusband.net/2008/12/could-you-forgive-your-spouse-for-cheating/#comment-1990 SusanVangHang Mon, 23 Jan 2012 00:02:55 +0000 http://agoodhusband.net/?p=1040#comment-1990 Tell him the truth, you love him, but don't trust him. My husband has cheated on me, and I tell him everyday that I don't trust him and I feel like a pathetic loser when I stand next to him. The only reason why I am here is because I am forced to love him. I love him with no trust and it destroys me as much as I now destroy our relationship. Tell him the truth, you love him, but don’t trust him. My husband has cheated on me, and I tell him everyday that I don’t trust him and I feel like a pathetic loser when I stand next to him. The only reason why I am here is because I am forced to love him. I love him with no trust and it destroys me as much as I now destroy our relationship.

]]> By: SusanVangHang http://agoodhusband.net/2008/12/could-you-forgive-your-spouse-for-cheating/#comment-1989 SusanVangHang Sun, 22 Jan 2012 23:52:26 +0000 http://agoodhusband.net/?p=1040#comment-1989 You never stop feeling sick. Everytime you think about it, it tears you up inside, and you want to rip into him too. To leave scars on him like he's left on you. You never stop feeling sick. Everytime you think about it, it tears you up inside, and you want to rip into him too. To leave scars on him like he’s left on you.

]]> By: Irene http://agoodhusband.net/2008/12/could-you-forgive-your-spouse-for-cheating/#comment-1919 Irene Wed, 14 Sep 2011 01:41:43 +0000 http://agoodhusband.net/?p=1040#comment-1919 My husband is not the first time cheated me. 9 yrs ago he went for body massage and being scatched by the lady on his body during his oversea trip. He came back and told me that he may worried he is infected by HIV. He told me about this incident after 3 weeks when he refuse to have sex with me. Again during his recent business trip, he hug and asking a GRO to make a kiss mark on his arm. I found that he is totally different when he came back from the trip. I started to suspect and keep on approaching him. After 3 weeks, when he is totally scare during the intercourse, I started to stop and approaching him. At the end, he admitted done something that hurt me. The way he tell me it seems not so honestly and open. At last, I have forgiven him as I do not want to spoil my children's life and the family. He promised that he will never ever repeated the same mistake and if he did so, the condition is I will not hesitate to commit suicide (as requested by me). I will want him to regret for the rest of his life and face the sadness & blame on his own. He started to care more about me and everytime when he wanted to hold and hug me, it making me remember the pain. Anyone can give me some advice. My husband is not the first time cheated me.
9 yrs ago he went for body massage and being scatched by the lady on his body during his oversea trip. He came back and told me that he may worried he is infected by HIV. He told me about this incident after 3 weeks when he refuse to have sex with me.

Again during his recent business trip, he hug and asking a GRO to make a kiss mark on his arm. I found that he is totally different when he came back from the trip. I started to suspect and keep on approaching him. After 3 weeks, when he is totally scare during the intercourse, I started to stop and approaching him. At the end, he admitted done something that hurt me. The way he tell me it seems not so honestly and open.

At last, I have forgiven him as I do not want to spoil my children’s life and the family. He promised that he will never ever repeated the same mistake and if he did so, the condition is I will not hesitate to commit suicide (as requested by me). I will want him to regret for the rest of his life and face the sadness & blame on his own.
He started to care more about me and everytime when he wanted to hold and hug me, it making me remember the pain.

Anyone can give me some advice.

]]> By: Lynn http://agoodhusband.net/2008/12/could-you-forgive-your-spouse-for-cheating/#comment-1916 Lynn Mon, 12 Sep 2011 20:35:45 +0000 http://agoodhusband.net/?p=1040#comment-1916 I just want to ask anyone a question. Cheating is one thing, what about if your husband has cheated on you your entire married life. Now, all of a sudden, he is repentant and claims that he didn't realize how much he loved you before, that he got married too young and he is ready to never do it again. He is working very hard and trying to do the best he can to prove how much he has changed for the past three months. He is still out of the house, because, I, the wife, am very scared to let him back into my life. What do you think? I would like to give it a try, but I feel like such a fool! It is very hard to even think about trusting him again. I am very hurt and disappointed. Can someone out there tell me if that ever happened to you? What did you do? Thanks! I just want to ask anyone a question. Cheating is one thing, what about if your husband has cheated on you your entire married life. Now, all of a sudden, he is repentant and claims that he didn’t realize how much he loved you before, that he got married too young and he is ready to never do it again. He is working very hard and trying to do the best he can to prove how much he has changed for the past three months. He is still out of the house, because, I, the wife, am very scared to let him back into my life. What do you think? I would like to give it a try, but I feel like such a fool! It is very hard to even think about trusting him again. I am very hurt and disappointed. Can someone out there tell me if that ever happened to you? What did you do?
Thanks!

]]> By: ji http://agoodhusband.net/2008/12/could-you-forgive-your-spouse-for-cheating/#comment-1914 ji Sun, 11 Sep 2011 21:56:04 +0000 http://agoodhusband.net/?p=1040#comment-1914 ...and people wonder why I'm seriously contemplating NOT getting married...I could just take the single parent adoption route..I don't need a husband for that. …and people wonder why I’m seriously contemplating NOT getting married…I could just take the single parent adoption route..I don’t need a husband for that.

]]> By: Poor Choice http://agoodhusband.net/2008/12/could-you-forgive-your-spouse-for-cheating/#comment-1913 Poor Choice Sun, 11 Sep 2011 20:25:32 +0000 http://agoodhusband.net/?p=1040#comment-1913 Dex: Do you still subscribe to this site? Your story is same as mine. Are you still with your wife? And is everything better? Dex: Do you still subscribe to this site? Your story is same as mine. Are you still with your wife? And is everything better?

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