http://agoodhusband.net/2008/05/avoid-cheating-wandering-eyes/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=avoid-cheating-wandering-eyes Marriage Advice From A Man Sun, 20 May 2012 10:41:47 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 http://agoodhusband.net/2008/05/avoid-cheating-wandering-eyes/#comment-1753 donalda Sat, 07 May 2011 00:00:02 +0000 http://agoodhusband.net/?p=191#comment-1753 The most you can ask is that he not rubber neck nor stare repeatedly. All men will continue to look, there's not much to do about it and policing his every move isn't the answer. I am very sensitive about it, even the glances. Women are naturally hyper alert to sexual threats that's why a man can't look without getting caught because we see the pretty woman too, sometimes before he does. I stopped talking to my husband about it. I just go to my happy place when he looks. If he is drooling or rubbernecking, then I say something. But he doesn't do that anymore. I think when I started ignoring the behavior he stopped doing it as much. The most you can ask is that he not rubber neck nor stare repeatedly. All men will continue to look, there’s not much to do about it and policing his every move isn’t the answer. I am very sensitive about it, even the glances. Women are naturally hyper alert to sexual threats that’s why a man can’t look without getting caught because we see the pretty woman too, sometimes before he does. I stopped talking to my husband about it. I just go to my happy place when he looks. If he is drooling or rubbernecking, then I say something. But he doesn’t do that anymore. I think when I started ignoring the behavior he stopped doing it as much.

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