The question is not do you love her, but how does she know that you love her?

I just saw Enchanted the other day. This song gives me pause to stop and think. Men, as silly as it is, listen to the song and then answer the question for yourself.

What have you done today to make sure that your wife knows you love her? Do you know what would tell her you love her? Do you simply tell her you love her without finding out what she needs in order to really know it?