The Xbox Conundrum – Is Video Game Addiction for Real?

by Cory H. on February 6, 2008

Is video game addiction real? It depends on who you ask. Psychologists and sociologists are debating this question as we speak.

I’ve had lots of people searching for answers to this question on my blog. Men love video games, right? In my last post about video games I mentioned that for many men it’s not an addiction, it’s just a passionate hobby.

Sometimes There Is A Bigger Problem

For other men, however, video games are a serious problem. There are three reported cases of men dying because they played video games for three days or more without sleeping, eating, or drinking. It should be pointed out that all of these deaths were gamers addicted not to XBOX or other consoles, but to Massively Multiplayer Online Roleplaying Games (MMORPG’s) like World of Warcraft or Everquest.

There was a medical conference on the issue in 2007. Video game addiction has not yet become an official diagnosis like alcohol or pornography addiction, but it has not been ruled out either.

How to Tell If You or Your Spouse Is Addicted

If you have four or five of the following problems, you might need to seek professional addiction help with your gaming habits:

  1. Persistent thoughts of the activity or performance of the activity. (Preoccupation)
  2. Need for increased time spent on the activity to achieve satisfaction or diminished reward for the same amount of time spent on the activity. (Tolerance)
  3. Inability to control, stop or diminish the behavior. (Loss of control)
  4. Restlessness or irritability when prevented from partaking in the activity. (Withdrawal)
  5. Lying to friends or family about extent of involvement with activity. (Continuance despite adverse consequences)
  6. Committing illegal acts to sustain activity. (Continuance despite adverse consequences)
  7. Relying on others to finance activity. (Continuance despite adverse consequences)

What to Do About It

There is just one official treatment center for video game addiction in the USA, and a facility has been opened in Amsterdam. China has one too.

Most scientists agree that video games do not physically cause addiction like drugs or alcohol. Games are instead the means of avoiding some sort of other problem. My recommendation is that if you feel that you are having a problem with gaming then talk to someone about it. Talk to your spouse, a friend, your mother, or a therapist. Find out what it is that you are trying to avoid. Face your problem.

Remember, for most people, video gaming is simply a serious hobby like boating, stamp collecting, or others. If your gaming is causing a problem with your life however, then you need to face up to and do something.

Facebook Twitter Email Digg Delicious Stumbleupon Reddit

Post comment as twitter logo facebook logo
Sort: Newest | Oldest
TraceyLuckham 5 pts

My husband and I have been together 3yrs and even before I got with him he was on the X box all day everyday, He wakes up between 2 - 4 pm and goes straight on the Xbox and doesnt come off untill 3-4 in the morning so no wonder he gets up late, he says as he has Fybromyalgia he needs to be in bed but he could sit down stairs with me and our 18 month old daughter, he hardly spends any time with us and we never go out, he says its due to his illness but I know its because he wants to play his Xbox, I really feel like throwing it out the window, I have told him hes addictid but he will not listen and says its the only way to escape pain hes in

JB sounds like at least you and your wife have recognized the potential problems that could occur. My husband and I have been going to marriage counceling and the xbox addiction is a big issue in our sessions that we have discussed. The councelor says that it is not my responsibility to monitor how much he plays and that if he wants to be the kind of person that play 24/7 than I just need to decide on whether or not that's the kind of person I want to be with.

Prior to counceling we had a schedule of when he would play. we agreed that any morning until 11am and one night a week from 6pm-9pm was his free playing time. Unfortunatley, he began waking up in the middle of the night to play until 11am and then would be so exhausted that once I woke up and was ready to start the day he was too tired to do anything.

So something to keep in mind if you and your wife agree on playing times...

I have been away from video games for nearly 90 days now. I have learned a few things. Games are just what they are games. In and of themselves no evil. But when players allow them to dominate day to day living it becomes a problem. My wife and i are planing to purchase a xbox and have laid ground rules. She is my accountability partner in the process. No need for applause or pat on the back. I am just a voice saying that games can be addicting and that ballance is needed. Schedule a start and stop time to play vs. having a free play session.

i HAVE READ ALL THE COMMENTS ABOUT GAMING ADDITION. AS FAR AS iM CONCERNED THE XBOX IS NO DIFFERENT THAN HAVING THE OUIJA BOARD IN THE HOUSE AND GETTING IN TOUCH WITH EVIL SPIRITS, THE REASON I MAKE THIS COMPARESON IS BECAUSE IT STORTS OFF SLOW AND SNOW BALLS OUT OF CONTROL. MY HUSBAND PLAYS THIS ALL THE TIME. HE GOES TO WORK AT 9AM COMES HOME AT 1PM AND STARTS PLAYING. i GET HOME AT 6PM HE IS STILL PLAYING TELLING ME HE WILL BE OFF SOON. SOMETIMES THAT MEANS 9PM OR LATER. HE WAKES UP IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT AND PLAYS FOR HOURS MISSING SLEEP. HE TURNS DOWN WORK AND SOCIALIZING WITH FRIENDS THAT COME OVER, NO, LIFE IS NOT PERFECT AND ITS GETTING WORSE. IM AT A LOSE AND DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO. WE ARE STARTING MARRIAGE CLASSES THIS WEEK, IF HE SHOWS UP. THIS IS OUT OF CONTROL AND I NEDD HEPL/ADVICE

Awesome blog. Will come again. :-)

You are right, he could probobly be gaming way more with less people in the house.

My husband and I have been married for over three years and his xbox addiction has become a very serious problem in our relationship. I have nearly left him on several occations. And our sex life has suffered as well.
I can only pray that he wakes up and realizes what it is doing to his life.

Interesting blog, i have bookmarked it for future referrence

Trackbacks

  1. [...] extinguished I’ll attribute the other 14.68% to such bad habits as leaving the toilet seat up or playing too much video games. A family budget is to be regarded as a sacred financial blueprint that will not only guide the [...]

Previous post:

Next post: